There are many dating sites all over the internet purporting to hook up young men to sugar mummies in Kenya.
However, I want to categorically state that getting a sugar mummy anywhere in this world depends with how smart you are.
Some people are naturally born to be smart. However, a big number of guys you see around are pretty shy, and will never hold any meaningful conversation with a mature woman.
It’s the reason why they keep moving in every corner of this country trying to secure sugar mummies to no avail. They’ve never been successful.
On top of this, they are never willing to pay someone who could make their work a little easier.
Therefore, I want to highlight certain matters with regards to finding a sugar mummy in Kenya.
Am actually giving out this lesson for free to anyone who cares to listen.
If you want to find and win the heart of a wealthy sugar mummy
Back in the days, I used to meet older women and literally talk nonsense which took me nowhere.
However, as I gained more experience in this industry, I realized that mature women were very different people indeed. They are not like young girls who care about pizzas and ice cream.
Sure, these things may seem romantic. But they should not be the focus when dealing with an older woman.
A rich, mature woman needs a young man with focus, not a poor, dumb idiot who doesn’t even know how to spell his name.
So, how do we make money from rich women?
How do we go about asking money from these rich women?
Well, do not count the small monies that she will give you here and there for your enjoyment. These are incentives that take you nowhere.
Unless you are very good at saving, chances are that you will squander that money and have nothing to show for it in the end.
Maybe you could come up with a business proposal. But please, do not hint money matters in your first date. Or else, she will think that you’re only concerned with her money.
Now, you need to get creative as far as your ”business proposal” is concerned. You can even lie, so long as you know how to conceal your lies carefully.
If she is a businesswoman (of course you will learn this in your first date), come across as industrious.
If there are any projects you’ve done in the past, mention them here as they could give you an edge.
Remember that you are seducing a mature cash cow, and the amount you will get depends on how well you can seduce her. I have often secured up to Ksh500,000 on a single date, and she told me that I should never refund her.
You can flirt with a rich, mature woman and she will appreciate it. If you are meeting in a restaurant and she arrives before you, tell her that you asked the waiter to direct you to the only table where the most beautiful woman is seated.
Of course you’re kidding… but remember you’re also being creative.
If you have a career (am sure most young men do), you can talk about your ambitions as far as your career is concerned.
Now, for those who are creative enough to come up with a proposal (of course after several meetings), things can work really well.
Tell your sugar mummy that you have this big project that needs funding. But first, you have to make it sound like it’s a carefully-thought out plan that will bring good return on investments later on.
This has to sound like you’re asking her to connect you with someone who would be willing to assist you realize your dreams.
Most of the time, these older women are well-connected. They will put you through or even give you the money you’re asking for.
But remember that you should never sound demanding. This is not your money. It’s her money. Take your nagging to your girlfriend or wife.
Things that you should note say or do to a sugarmummy in Kenya
You can read this post to learn a few things or two about sugar mummies and how to date them safely without risking being dumped.
Your relationship with your sugar mummy has to start with a date. Am sure she will ask questions which must be answered thoughtfully.
She might ask you why you’re not willing to date young girls. Sugar mummies in Kenya love to ask this question anyway.
And if you’re looking for a sugar mummy, you should be ready to answer this question as well.
As for the answer, don’t say that young girls are high maintenance. If you do, you will come across as a male gold digger…. which is a situation we are trying very hard to avoid.
You can always find your way round this question by saying that mature and financially-independent women are never hard on their partner’s pockets.
When you call it a day, you will obviously part ways or even end up in her house depending on how you agree.
But some women will never take you to their homes the first time they meet you. Trust has to be built first.
However, rest assured that her bedroom will be your playground sooner or later. Be the patient one.
Oh, and do you know how to drive?
Most sugar mummies in Kenya will have no qualms lending you their cars to drive. And most of the time, you will also chauffeur them around.
If you are a good driver, that will be a plus for you. However, if you don’t own a valid driving license, you can learn along the way… it’s never a requirement.
Finally, when you part ways after the first date, be sure to thank her for her time. It’s always courteous to do so. It’s also your chance to complement her with some nice words. Just be creative and you will finally achieve your end.